Ever had a fantasy you've never told a soul? Sexologist and sex coach Dr. Stacy Friedman breaks down role play — what it actually is, how to bring it up with your partner without it sounding like a confession, how to keep it safe with consent and safe words, and how to make it genuinely fun instead of a performance. In this solo sexologist talk, Dr. Stacy shares real scripts for starting the conversation, a menu of scenario ideas from mild to wild, a crash course in dirty talk, and answers the questions she gets asked constantly as a sex coach about fantasy, safety, and bringing more play into your sex life — at any stage, including midlife. Find more from Dr. Stacy at drstacyfriedman.com and @drstacyfriedman everywhere.
In This Episode You Will Learn
What role play actually is (and why it's simpler than you think)
Exact scripts for bringing up a fantasy without it feeling like a confession
How to keep role play safe with consent, safe words, and aftercare
A menu of scenario ideas, from mild to wild, plus a dirty talk crash course
Answers to the questions Dr. Stacy gets asked most about fantasy and desire
Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Private Intimacy Advisor, Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project — on a mission to make midlife the hottest chapter of your sex life yet. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps men and women break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy — without apology.
She specializes in the unique desire challenges that come with midlife — hormonal shifts, erectile changes, mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel empowering, entertaining, and long overdue.
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