Answering the Questions Nearlyweds Are Actually Asking Right Now

This week, Fallon is doing something a little different. With no questions in the inbox (yet!), she went out and found the questions nearlyweds are asking everywhere right now — the forums, the wedding groups, the surveys, the late-night group chats — and she's answering all five as if they came straight from a listener.

In this episode, Fallon tackles:

• Should you use AI to plan your wedding? Where it genuinely saves you time, and where the human touch is non-negotiable
• Navigating the guest list when one family is huge, the other is small, and you and your partner can't agree on the size
• Cash bars, kid-free weddings, and cash gifts — what's actually acceptable in 2026, and how to communicate it without looking tacky
• The truth about tipping vendors — what's already in your contract, who to tip, and Fallon's take on the front-end tipping philosophy
• When the in-laws are paying — how to accept family contributions without handing over control of your day

The throughline? Modern weddings are about intentional choices, clearly communicated. The "rules" haven't disappeared — they've opened up — as long as you lead with clarity and kindness.

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