What are you carrying that is not actually yours to carry?
In this short In-Light Moment of Confident Leadership. In Colour., Hanna Zaxmy continues the summer series Hammock Reflections for Your Leadership Palette with a reflection on Ownership in the CONFIDENT Framework.
Ownership is an important part of leadership. But healthy ownership is not about taking responsibility for everything. It is about taking responsibility with clarity.
Sometimes we carry concerns, tensions, expectations, decisions or emotions simply because we care, because we notice things, or because we are moving too fast to pause and ask: Is this mine to carry?
This episode invites you to slow down, notice what you have been holding, and sort what belongs to you — and what may need to be released, clarified or handed back.
In this episode:
00:00 Welcome to In-Light Moments
00:38 Looking back: Clarity and joy
00:53 Ownership in the CONFIDENT Framework
01:01 Today’s question: what are you carrying?
01:26 Why we need to slow down before answering honestly
02:05 When we pick things up without noticing
02:20 Healthy ownership is not carrying everything
02:40 Caring without carrying every decision, tension or feeling
03:12 The core reflection question
03:49 What is yours to carry, influence, release or hand back?
04:04 Practical exercise: three columns
05:03 A small cue for the season ahead
05:29 Final reflection and invitation to follow the podcast
Reflection question:
What am I carrying that is not actually mine to carry?
Practical exercise:
Create three columns:
- Mine to carry
- Mine to influence
- Not mine to carry
Then sort the thoughts, worries, relationships, responsibilities, tasks, decisions, tensions or needs that have been taking up space lately.
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