In this episode of Conflict to Connection, Mitch Wilkins and Bill Hewlett speak with Professor Anne Barlow (University of Exeter) about the gaps in the family justice system and how current separation processes can unintentionally increase conflict.

Drawing on decades of socio-legal research, Anne reflects on why reforms designed to encourage mediation have instead led to confusion and reduced access to support.

The conversation explores emotional readiness, power imbalances, and inconsistencies in mediation practice. Alongside a powerful case for child-inclusive approaches and ensuring children’s voices are meaningfully heard.

This is a thoughtful and evidence-led discussion for anyone interested in how we can better support families through separation.

What listeners will gain

  • A clearer understanding of why the current system struggles to support families effectively
  • Insight into how policy decisions impact real-life separation experiences
  • A deeper awareness of emotional readiness and its role in mediation
  • Practical thinking around improving outcomes through earlier and better support
  • A strong evidence-based case for including children in the process

Who this episode is for

  • Family law professionals and mediators
  • Policymakers and those interested in justice reform
  • Professionals supporting separating families
  • Parents navigating separation who want to better understand the system


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Anne's New Book: Children’s Voices, Family Disputes and Child-Inclusive Mediation - The Right to Be Heard

By Anne Barlow and Jan Ewing  


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