Duncan Goldsmith made the life-changing decision to leave South Africa in 1986—long before emigration became commonplace. Nearly four decades later, he reflects on what it really takes to build a successful life abroad.
Born and raised in Port Elizabeth, Duncan began his career in banking before an opportunity in information technology opened the door to Australia. Arriving in Melbourne with his wife, two young children and little more than determination, he embraced a country that would eventually become home.
In this candid conversation, Duncan shares the realities of emigrating before Facebook, WhatsApp and South African expat communities existed. There were no soft landings, no biltong shops and no online groups to answer questions—just the determination to make it work.
We discuss the emotional cost of leaving family behind, adapting to a new culture, raising children in a different country, Australia's work ethic, cost of living, healthcare, taxes and why many South Africans struggle because they're trying to recreate the country they left.
Whether you're considering Australia or already living abroad, Duncan's advice is practical, honest and shaped by nearly 40 years of experience.
"If you're looking for South Africa in Australia, you'll be disappointed. Come with an open mind and make Australia your home."
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TIMESTAMPS
00:01 – Introducing Duncan Goldsmith
00:30 – Growing up in Port Elizabeth
02:50 – Why he emigrated to Australia in 1986
05:38 – The emotional challenge of leaving family behind
09:02 – Parents, grandchildren and life across continents
14:07 – Why going back was never an option
15:30 – Starting over without a South African community
17:00 – The biggest mistakes South Africans make in Australia
20:24 – Why Melbourne became home
24:58 – Cost of living and buying property
30:37 – Healthcare, taxes and getting value for your money
34:20 – Do South Africans really move back?
37:00 – Practical advice for new migrants
39:30 – Safety in Australia today
41:30 – Should you visit before emigrating?
43:40 – Marriage, teamwork and adapting overseas
44:50 – Boks vs Wallabies: Who does he support?
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Connect with the podcast
Website: www.therelocatedsouthafrican.com
Podcast: The Relocated South African — available on Spotify and all major podcast platforms.
If Duncan's story resonated with you, please share this episode with another South African considering a move to Australia—or anyone interested in what it really takes to build a successful life abroad.
