Many people long for deeper intimacy, yet find themselves feeling disconnected—from their partners, their own bodies, and even their authentic sexual desire. One often overlooked contributor is problematic pornography use, which can reshape the brain's reward system, reinforce performance-based sexuality, and make genuine emotional and physical connection more difficult.
In this episode of Dr. Jeff Talks About Sex & Intimacy, Dr. Jeff welcomes Alexandra Katehakis, PhD, LMFT, CST, licensed marriage and family therapist, certified sex therapist, author, and educator specializing in sexuality, intimacy, trauma, and the treatment of problematic pornography use and compulsive sexual behavior. We will explore how compulsive pornography use can affect the brain's reward system, reshape patterns of desire and arousal, and create barriers to authentic emotional and sexual connection. Dr. Katehakis explains the neuroscience behind these behaviors, the role of attachment and trauma in their development, and why shame is rarely an effective catalyst for lasting change.
The conversation also examines how mindfulness, self-awareness, and evidence-based therapeutic approaches can help individuals break free from compulsive patterns, reconnect with their bodies, and cultivate healthier, more satisfying intimate relationships. Dr. Katehakis shares practical strategies for moving beyond performance-based sexuality toward genuine presence, emotional vulnerability, and authentic intimacy.
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