Japanese vs American boyfriends — 4 girls in Tokyo who've dated both reveal the real cultural gaps, from texting frequency to saying "I love you." It gets heated.


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Lisa (half-Japanese, American BF), Jenny (Canadian-Chinese, Japanese BF), Honoha (fully Japanese, American BF), and Kaitlyn (Korean, Japanese BF) share their real experiences — including a live earthquake mid-recording.


Japanese vocab covered:

連絡 (renraku) — contacting someone

愛してる (aishiteru) — "I love you" — the nuclear option

好き / 大好き (suki / daisuki) — the everyday way to express love

本音 (honne) — your true feelings

建前 (tatemae) — your public face

迷惑 (meiwaku) — being a bother

空気を読む (kūki wo yomu) — "read the air"


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