What do you do when a groom disappears, the bartender cancels, and your ex somehow ends up saving the wedding? This week, Christa is joined by Sandra Weir, founder of The Wedding Nanny NYC, to talk about the unique world of wedding childcare, the wildest situations she's encountered on the job, and why setting boundaries is essential when kids are involved.

What do you do when a groom disappears, the bartender cancels, and your ex somehow ends up saving the wedding?

This week, Christa is joined by Sandra Weir, founder of The Wedding Nanny NYC, to talk about the unique world of wedding childcare, the wildest situations she's encountered on the job, and why setting boundaries is essential when kids are involved. From a wedding that secretly doubled its child count to police showing up over a family dispute, Sandra shares unforgettable behind-the-scenes stories. 

Plus, Sandra and Christa react to a listener submission featuring a missing groom, a canceled bartender, a no-show wedding planner, giant Jell-O shots, and an ex-boyfriend who somehow became the hero of the day. You won't believe how this one ends.

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Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

  • Meet the Wedding Nanny - Sandra shares how a single wedding experience inspired her to launch a business dedicated to caring for children during weddings and special events.
  • Why Wedding Childcare Matters - Sandra explains how dedicated childcare allows parents to relax while ensuring children stay safe, entertained, and included.
  • The Wedding with 18 Surprise Kids - What was supposed to be a manageable booking quickly turned into chaos when nearly double the expected number of children showed up.
  • When Boundaries Become Essential - Sandra discusses difficult situations where parents assumed childcare was available for every child at the wedding and why clear boundaries matter.
  • The Police Show Up - A seemingly normal wedding took an unexpected turn when family tensions escalated and law enforcement arrived at the venue.
  • The Groom Who Couldn't Stop Skating - Christa and Sandra react to a jaw-dropping story involving a groom who repeatedly disappeared while wedding-day responsibilities piled up.
  • The Ex Who Saved the Wedding - A listener's former boyfriend unexpectedly stepped in to help when vendors started canceling and wedding plans fell apart.
  • Wedding Day Red Flags - Christa and Sandra discuss how behavior leading up to a wedding can reveal important clues about the future of a marriage.
Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode

  • "Communication goes a long way, especially when everyone's counting on you." - Christa Innis
  • "A wedding day should bring people together, not leave one person carrying all the responsibility." - Christa Innis
  • "Sometimes the biggest wedding drama isn't the guests, it's the person standing at the altar." - Christa Innis
  • "Your wedding day is often a preview of how you'll handle challenges together later." - Christa Innis
  • "The people who show up when things fall apart are the ones you remember most." - Christa Innis
  • "Boundaries aren't rude, they're what keep chaos from taking over." - Christa Innis
  • "Children deserve to feel just as special and included as the adults celebrating." -Sandra Weir
  • "Preparation is everything, especially when you're responsible for someone's child." -Sandra Weir
  • "You can be kind while still holding firm boundaries." - Sandra Weir
  • "The more information you have beforehand, the safer and smoother the day becomes." - Sandra Weir
  • "If your partner isn't backing you up during the easy moments, the hard moments become even harder." - Sandra Weir
  • "Every wedding teaches you something new about people, families, and relationships." - Sandra Weir
  • "The goal isn't just watching children, it's creating a positive experience for them too." - Sandra Weir

*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.

About Sandra
Sandra Weir is the founder of The Wedding Nanny NYC, a unique service helping couples enjoy their big day without worrying about who's keeping an eye on the kids. With more than 10 years of professional nanny experience, Sandra leads a team that provides personalized childcare for weddings and special events across New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut.

From toddler meltdowns and family drama to unexpected wedding-day surprises, Sandra has truly seen it all. In this episode, she shares how she built her business, the importance of setting boundaries, and some of the wildest stories she's encountered while helping couples create a stress-free experience for both parents and their youngest guests.

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