What happens when you're finally given everything you asked for — and your mind still tells you to shrink?
I just got back from a private one-on-one retreat I said yes to before my mind had a chance to talk me out of it. Infinity pool. Mountains. Horses. Total permission to take up space.
And I still wouldn't ask for everything I really wanted.
In this mini episode, we go deep on what happened when I was given an experience most people would call a dream — and found myself negotiating with an invisible set of rules about how much space I was allowed to take. It's a real-time look at good girl conditioning showing up in the exact moment you'd least expect it: when no one is watching, and nothing is stopping you but you.
You've done the work, said yes, and shown up — and you still find yourself shrinking when no one's asking you to
Your mind has a script for staying small, and it's running even when you're alone
Fear doesn't just show up in big moments — it shows up in whether you use the pool
Noticing the pattern is the first step to interrupting it
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You are not too much. You've never needed permission to take up space. This is your next level.
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