#124 The Psychology of Sacred Kink: BDSM, Spirituality & Ritual with Melissa M. Wilcox

What if some BDSM experiences aren't simply erotic—but sacred?

In this episode I explore with scholar Melissa M. Wilcox about the fascinating intersection of BDSM, spirituality, religion, ritual and sexuality.

We explore:

• Ritual, surrender and meaning within BDSM.
• The historical relationship between religion, pain and self-flagellation.
• What makes an experience feel sacred.
• Melissa's research process for Devotions.
• Feminist Wicca, LGBTQ+ Christianity and Melissa's academic journey.
• Why human beings create rituals in the first place.

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Stay perverted,

Emma

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