She's Dated Both — Here's What Men Do Better Than Women (And Vice Versa)

Someone says they’ll take you home, then “just makes a quick stop” at 1:30am. Do you stay polite or trust your gut and get out of the car? 

That story kicks off a very real talk on modern dating, boundaries, and how fast a vibe can flip.

We’re Lindsay and Jess, and our guest Emily brings a blunt, funny take on dating in Scottsdale versus California, bisexual dating, and why status chasing is an instant turnoff. She opens up about a TikTok-started four year relationship that turned toxic, and what it looks like to date again after losing trust in your own judgment.

Then we get practical. Dating apps versus real life, “icks” that actually mean something, athletic compatibility, beauty pressure, Botox conversations, and the anxiety of trying to keep up. We also hit a wild listener question about an open marriage involving a brother, plus how to come out to conservative parents who may not get it.

Hit play, share with a friend who overthinks every date, and leave a review with your biggest dating ick.

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