Chill vlog #82: sometimes love means knowing what they need

In today’s vlog:

• Peter finally goes to the hospital for his painful mouth swelling and ulcers, and I realise what taking care of your partner actually looks like
• Why love for us sometimes means putting each other’s needs above our own, even when they insist they can handle things themselves
• Answering whether our future kids would have four dads, and why the relationship matters more than the label
• Reflecting on what makes a relationship feel secure enough that your mind doesn’t immediately jump to cheating or betrayal