Chill vlog #27: our perspective on how to approach arguments & rescuing a lizard in our sink

Today’s vlog starts chaotic and somehow turns into a relationship podcast:

• Trying to rescue a tiny, extremely fast lizard that got trapped in our sink
• Why we sometimes assume our partner did something intentionally when they didn’t
• What it means to approach disagreements in “good faith” instead of immediately blaming each other
• How ADHD creates misunderstandings around mess, chores and things that seem obvious to the other person
• Why “can you take the rubbish out?” can mean completely different things to two people
• Learning to focus less on whose fault something was and more on how to stop it happening again
• Why communication can be surprisingly exhausting
• How our own experiences affect the way we interpret other people — including the assumptions people make about our quad relationship
• Whether two people can interpret the same act of love completely differently