Why Are People So Shitty? Swinger Drama, Bullies & Trolls

Why are people so shitty? It's the question nobody can answer, but this week Adam & Pris sure try. In this candid episode of Beyond Monogamy, your favorite swinger podcast couple airs a little dirty laundry (no names, promise) about drama, bullies, and trolls in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy community — and how to protect yourself without losing your fun.

In this episode:

• The 80–90% of the lifestyle community that's wonderful — and the tiny percentage that isn't
• A group owner gone rogue: platform bullying, minions, and a two-year obsession with fake profiles
• Why outing people in the swinger community is the one unforgivable sin
• Discretion vs. connection: why you can't be 100% anonymous and still succeed in the lifestyle
• How to vet new people (yes, including the video-with-your-name-and-date trick)
• Trolls, anonymous comments, and why Adam officially does not give a f***
• One bad apple doesn't spoil this bunch — it's a whole fruit salad

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