She's been with over a dozen people in the lifestyle — and has never once had an orgasm with any of them. Meanwhile, her husband comes every time. More than once. At the club.

This week, Adam & Pris dive headfirst into one of the most common — and least talked-about — issues in the lifestyle: the orgasm gap. Is it a vetting problem? A communication problem? A men-are-oblivious problem? (Spoiler: yes, yes, and yes.)

In This Episode:

  • Why the orgasm gap is real — and gets worse in the lifestyle
  • Why she comes easily at home but not at the club
  • How to vet for pleasure-focused partners
  • The power of over-communication before you ever get to the back room
  • Toys, body language, cheat codes, and how to advocate for your own pleasure
  • Is everyone just out for themselves? Adam & Pris give the honest answer

Find everything Beyond Monogamy at beyond-monogamy.com — including our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your story and it might become our next episode.

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