Can you be gay and be a Christian? Nic Renick lived inside that question for years, and his answer will make both sides uncomfortable.
In this Stuff God Never Said episode, Audrey Cauthen sits down with Nic Renick for one of the most honest ex gay testimonies you will ever hear. Nic came out at 15. He spent three years in Hawaii chasing New Age spirituality and psychedelics, looking for healing he never found. He married a partner who was living as a man. Then his wife laid down her transgender identity, and Nic had to face his own.
This is a gay-toChristian testimony and a detransition story told from the husband's side. Nic talks about the childhood wounds underneath his sexual identity. He talks about the church hurt that almost ended his faith. He talks about what biblical masculinity actually looks like, and it is not what most men have been sold.
Nic and Lex Renick were married as two men. Today they are husband and wife raising three kids and running Revive Traveling Ministry full time. Along the way there was a medical outcome her own doctor could not explain.
Nic does not soften the truth and he does not reach for shame. He has a word for the church about how it treats people walking in this, and a word for the people the church has already pushed away. If you have a son, a brother, or a friend in this, watch to the end. Nic answers exactly what to do and what not to do.
WATCH LEX'S STORY FIRST: https://youtu.be/hVwoHYp_QVg
FIND NIC AND LEX: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revivetravelingministry Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nic.renic/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/revivetravelingministry/ They offer prayer and coaching calls, plus Truth and Love Ministry coaching for church and ministry leaders. They are also raising support to live on the road in a school bus, serving coffee and taking the gospel to people who have given up on church.
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Chapters: 00:00 The Story in 60 Seconds 00:51 Meet Nic Renick, Husband of Lex Renick 01:55 Why Nothing Fell Away Instantly 03:59 Childhood Trauma and Where the Identity Started 07:05 "My Desires Are Gone" and Why People Hate It 08:45 Who Leads? Biblical Masculinity Rebuilt 11:27 Coming Out at 15 and the False Freedom 12:23 Losing Every Friend After Leaving 14:23 Hawaii, New Age, and Psychedelics 16:05 Marriage Doesn't Fix You 17:36 Cherry-Picking the Bible and the "Loophole" 19:21 The Church That Prayed the Gay Out of Him 21:59 Could the Church Have Handled It Right? 26:03 How New Age Makes You Your Own God 28:33 Homeless, Then a Coffee Shop 30:40 The Moment He Got Saved 35:36 "God Told Me to Lay Down Austin" 37:44 "This Is Going to Be a Medical Miracle" 39:35 What Detransition Did to the Marriage 42:51 The Precancerous Cells That Disappeared 45:00 The Lie About God He Believed for Years 47:20 How to Actually Love a Man Who's Struggling 51:16 Can You Be Gay and Be a Christian? 53:25 Stuff God Never Said About LGBTQ People 55:30 Should You Go to a Gay Wedding? 57:08 Revive Traveling Ministry and the School Bus
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