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What if one of the greatest gifts you could give your child isn't better parenting, but a more regulated nervous system?
In this episode, I sit down with nervous system coach Laura Larios to explore how our childhood experiences shape the way we lead, parent, and respond to stress. We discuss why children borrow the nervous systems of the adults around them, how unresolved emotional wounds show up in high performers, and simple ways to break generational patterns without striving for perfection.
If you've ever wondered why your child's emotions trigger you or how to create a calmer, more connected home, this conversation is for you.
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KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Your child learns emotional safety from your nervous system before they learn it from your words.
- Unresolved childhood wounds can quietly shape how you parent, lead, and respond to stress.
- Small moments of regulation can create lasting change for both you and your children.
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Episode Highlights: nervous, system, regulation, parenting, trauma, childhood, emotions, children, burnout, stress, leadership, healing, safety, connection, triggers, dysregulation, attachment, somatic, grief, anger, anxiety, overwhelm, caregivers, teachers, capacity, presence, resilience, relationships, generational, patterns
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LINKS & RESOURCES
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lauralisalarios/
LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauralisalarios/
Website →https://lauralisalarios.com/
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CHAPTERS
00:00 Intro
01:01 Why Nervous System Work Matters More Than Ever
07:08 What It Means When Children Borrow Your Nervous System
11:41 How Childhood Trauma Shapes Adulthood
17:35 Why High Performers Repeat Unhealthy Patterns
20:33 Why Your Child's Emotions Trigger You
26:57 Why You Need to Feel Every Emotion
33:06 Creating Safety Before Healing
38:40 Breaking the Cycle With Your Children
44:17 Practical Steps to Stay Calm in Difficult Moments
52:25 Small Changes That Transform Your Nervous System
54:32 Final Thoughts & Where to Find Laura