The Hidden Reason Some Married Men Have Affairs (From a Sex Therapist)

With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon

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In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler discuss whether higher testosterone actually leads to cheating, why mismatched sex drives can strain relationships, and the complex realities of intimacy, monogamy, and desire.

00:00 – Intro and Listener Question: A listener asks whether higher testosterone levels actually make men more likely to cheat.

00:14 – Does High T Cause Cheating: Dr. Morgentaler explains why the science doesn't support the idea that high testosterone causes infidelity.

01:51 – Libido Plateaus and Stereotypes: The doctors discuss why libido has limits and how common stereotypes about "high T men" can be misleading.

04:44 – Gym Culture and A Counterexample: They explore the gym culture surrounding testosterone use and share a surprising patient story that challenges assumptions.

10:01 – I Need Sex to Stay Married: The conversation shifts to mismatched sex drives, affairs, and why some people feel sex is essential to their relationship.

14:15 – Honesty, Ethics and Wrap Up: The doctors unpack the ethics of honesty, infidelity, and why there are rarely simple answers in relationships.

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