Sex addicts in recovery will often compare their compulsive behaviors to those of other men they meet in recovery.

They will say things like:

“Mine wasn’t that bad”

“It was just a few times”

“We never had sex”

“It was all virtual”

“It’s just porn”

There are a few problems with statements like this.

It’s going to hurt your recovery

Comparing yourself to others is likely a big part of your recovery and needs to stop

Your wife couldn't care less what other men are doing

Recovery is about honesty, integrity, and authenticity. It’s about acting in a way that you wouldn’t hide from others.

In this episode, Chris Burns and I talk about these comparative statements and the truth behind them.

Chris is a certified sex addiction therapist and the founder of Re-write Recovery Counseling. He and I both have a passion for helping men live in integrity with their values.

If you’re interested in working with Chris, you can find his website here: https://www.rewrite-recovery.com/

If you are interested in joining one of my recovery groups, you can visit my website here: successfuladdict.com

If you have yet to read or listened to my book, you can find it here on Amazon and Audible: https://a.co/d/06J78kat

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