132. What If You Don't Actually Want to Change Your Life? How to Tell the Difference Between True Desire and What's Underneath for your Midlife Reinvention

You want to quit your job. Leave your relationship. Move somewhere warm. Start a business. Change your body. Blow up your life and start over.

And maybe you really do need a big change.

But before you make one, there's another question worth asking: What do you actually want to feel?

In this episode, Lori Lisai explores the underlying desires beneath those big midlife urges. 

Human Design can help you sort through the desire, conditioning, and midlife chaos so you can make decisions from your own authority rather than reacting to what you think you're supposed to do. 

In this episode:

• The question to ask before making a major midlife change

• Why "when I have X, I'll feel Y" can reveal what you're really seeking

• How Human Design authority can help you discern your next move

• Where conditioning may be influencing what you think you want

• How to experiment with one-degree pivots

• When a big change really may be necessary

The goal isn't to talk yourself out of what you want. Your desires matter. The goal is to understand what they're telling you so you can move toward the life you actually want, one decision at a time.

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