When tension is high, how do you avoid saying something to your spouse that you'll end up regretting? Deborah Pegues and Jim Daly offer some helpful thoughts on what it means and looks like to control your tongue. Then, the Smalley's share how to calm down and get collected even when an argument gets intense. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY30 Days to Taming Your TongueFocus on Marriage AssessmentControlling Your Tongue (Digital Download)Take the Reactive Cycle AssessmentListen to Focus Live on Godcaster Rss Apple Podcaster →