Surprise! This one’s a BONUS Embodied Love Lounge episode. Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida were so excited about this topic, they just couldn’t wait to share it! They get honest about ‘woman on top’: why it hurts for so many women...You climb on top. His hands clamp onto your hips. Then a sharp, crampy hit deep inside steals your breath.
Maybe this is just me. Maybe this is how it's supposed to feel.
So you brace. You hold back. You keep your hips careful so he can last, and you never find out what your body would do if you let it go.
Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida Desilets have a name for that moment: a signal. Your body telling you to stop, reset, and move another way.
And when you do? Your hips are free. The pleasure builds until it shudders through you. Dr. Saida calls what comes forward "my own erotic wildness."
In this Embodied Love Lounge episode, they get honest about woman on top: why it hurts for so many women, and why it's so often the one position where a woman who struggles to climax with a partner finally can.
You'll discover:
• What your body is telling you when your breath stops and your hands brace
• Why the hottest moments on top show up when you're rolling and tangled together
• Why women who can't climax from penetration so often find it on top
• What it feels like to take your pleasure and then surrender to it
• The slow-building pleasure that ends in full-body shudders, and why this position reaches it
Here’s a sneak peek into what you’re missing… In the members-only episode...
Dr. Saida gets personal about what she learned in her twenties, because she wanted pleasure to last way longer. Then she says the words so many of us needed years ago: “Go at your pace.”
And in the erotic insert, recorded separately and layered in, the conversation becomes an experience. It starts on an ordinary workday, two people distracted and disconnected. What happens next is for members only.
Want to open the door?
→ GET THE FULL EPISODE + EROTIC INSERT
→ JOIN EMBODIED LOVE UNIVERSITY FREE