"There is no time, but there's still time. The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The next best time is now."
In this deeply transformative episode of Konnected Minds, we sit down with Olu Shola to unpack the paradox that every ambitious person must master: the tension between urgency and patience, between moving fast and giving your seeds time to grow, and why understanding this balance is the difference between those who build empires and those who burn out chasing them.
We dive into the concept of momento moro, the Latin phrase that means remember your mortality, and why the moment you realize you can die tomorrow it must stir something in you that says all of the giftings on my inside need to be manifested as soon as possible. We break down why the world doesn't reward the greatest of ideas but only rewards ideas in motion, why clarity does not come before movement but comes because of movement, and why we need to build a breed of executors who can shorten the time between ideation and execution. We expose why the world is full of strategists but the word execution is not even in the first hundred most popular words on LinkedIn bios, why the world has many talkers but few doers, and why the world will not reward your good intentions but only the works of your hands that you bring forth.
But we also confront the other side of this truth: that there's still time, which means you must develop the patience to watch your seeds grow. We unpack why no matter how much in a hurry you are you can never fast track the gestation process of a child, why nine months is nine months in the womb, and why you must develop the patience to watch cement dry. We discuss why not everything that you start now will become great overnight but will become great over time, why you will not become a Dangote or an Otedola overnight, and why understanding the fine balance between urgency and patience will elevate your life and thoroughly transform your perspective.
We get into the Japanese philosophy of Misogi, which teaches that every single year you must try to do something that you have a higher chance of failing at than succeeding, why growth does not happen in the midst of comfort and there's also no comfort in the midst of growth, and why everybody must just learn to be uncomfortable at some point. We break down why audacity is like a seed that is planted and keeps growing till it becomes bigger, why there's a school of bravery everyone has to enroll in, and why bravery is not only discerned in the greatest or biggest occasions but begins from the small decisions you make that lead up to the big one. We discuss why you won't just wake up one day and say I want to run for presidency without having proved your mettle in smaller things, why you must start doing hard things now, and why developing audacity in seed form from this moment is how you expand your mind and improve your possibility metrics.
We also tackle the debate between motivation and discipline, why motivation is extremely perishable, and why discipline is what you do when no one is watching. We unpack why if you keep waiting to feel like it you get nothing done, why knowledge is greater than feelings, why commitments are greater than motivation, and the powerful lesson from B Bank Jr. who said when I'm working out and I tell myself I'm going to do 10 reps I don't stop at 9 because when I stop at 9 I'm training myself to quit. We discuss why your body keeps record of every single thing you do, why commitments are more powerful than motivation, and why you must keep the promises you make to yourself because when you commit your body and your feelings will follow instead of the other way around.
We close with the law of compounding, why when you make a commitment to improve yourself at least 1% every single week you've improved yourself by about 68% at the end of an entire year, and why if you're not advancing you are retreating because nature abhors vacuum. We break down why many people overrate what can happen in a year and underrate the impact that can happen in five years, and why in seed form, little by little, poco a poco, seeking to be better and making brave decisions will transform you so much that in five years time you will not be able to recognize yourself.
If you're tired of waiting for the perfect moment, if you're ready to move your ideas from the arena of the mind where they are magnificent and become a doer and an executor, and if you want to understand the fine balance between urgency and patience that will elevate your life, this conversation is for you.
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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Derrick Abaitey is a Ghanaian entrepreneur, podcast host, and personal development advocate.
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