What You Risk When You Admit Your Fantasy to Your Partner

If telling your partner the truth about a fantasy could change how they see you, this episode is for you.

A fantasy.

A pause.

A look on their face.

And suddenly, the moment is bigger than what you said.

If this is you:

• You start softening, editing, or managing the truth before you even say it

• Your partner’s silence feels almost impossible to sit in

• You worry sexual honesty could expose more than desire

• You do not know when disclosure is intimacy and when it starts feeling dangerous

In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to talk about what sexual honesty can expose in a relationship.

Because the moment you tell the truth is often the moment you find out what the relationship can hold.

REFERENCES/RESOURCES

www.alternativescounseling.com

That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love

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