In this episode, we reconnect with executive function coach Megan Barnett for another rich conversation about the intersection of ADHD, parenting, nervous system regulation, and real-world executive function support. We talk candidly about why so many “quick fix” tips fall flat—and how true transformation starts with grounding the whole family system. We also announce a brand-new offering for moms and families that’s launching this summer to help you move into the next school year empowered, supported, and steady

What you’ll learn:

  • Why executive function coaching for kids isn’t enough without support for parents
  • How regulating your own nervous system is foundational to helping your child regulate theirs
  • What co-regulation really means—and why it matters so much for neurodivergent families
  • How mindset work can fall short when the nervous system is in survival mode
  • The missing role of “real-time” support in creating lasting behavior change
  • Why so many families feel overwhelmed by scattered solutions—and what they really need instead
  • How fear and overwhelm impact advocacy and decision-making in the school system
  • How to build an individualized, holistic roadmap for your family
  • The power of community, co-regulation, and support during high-stress parenting seasons
  • Details of our new summer coaching container launching June 2025


Questions answered in this episode:

  • Why do executive function strategies often fail when parents feel dysregulated?
  • How do we support moms who are also living with ADHD while trying to help their children?
  • What’s missing from most school-based and therapeutic interventions for neurodivergent kids?
  • How can parents confidently advocate for their children’s needs in IEP/504 meetings?
  • Why is nervous system regulation more foundational than mindset shifts?
  • What do families really need in the early stages after a diagnosis?
  • What kind of plan helps reduce parental overwhelm and increases confidence?
  • How do we help parents step into leadership when they’ve been socially conditioned to doubt themselves?
  • What’s the role of intuitive knowing in parenting—and how do we access it?
  • What is the summer coaching program, and who is it for?


🚨Launching June 2025!

Megan and I are teaming up to support moms and kids this summer with an individualized 2-month coaching container including:

  • 1:1 Zoom coaching calls
  • Voxer voice note support (real-time help!)
  • IEP/504 support
  • Executive function planning
  • Nervous system regulation tools
  • Access to Megan’s 7-week ADHD parent course
  • Access to my guided emotional regulation video archive


Join the waitlist here to schedule your free discovery call and see if it’s a fit.


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