Low Libido Explained: Desire Mismatch, Hormones, and Better Sex with Dr. Diane Mueller

Low libido is often treated like a relationship failure, but Dr. Diane Mueller argues that it is a signal worth investigating. In this episode, the board-certified sexologist joins Ryan Alford and Chris Hansen for a candid conversation about why long-term couples frequently fall out of sync. They discuss responsive desire, the surprising value of scheduling intimacy, and the effects of stress, hormones, pelvic pain, and chronic health issues. Dr. Mueller also explains how expanding the definition of sex can help couples remain connected while addressing deeper physical or emotional causes. Listeners will leave with practical questions to ask, new ways to discuss desire mismatch, and resources for understanding their own libido. TOPICS COVERED The science of arousal and desire Low libido in long-term relationships Differences in how partners experience desire Scheduling intimacy without eliminating spontaneity Navigating mismatched sex drives Physical and hormonal causes of low libido Communicating about sex without shame Rebuilding passion and connection CONNECT WITH DR. DIANE MUELLER My Libido Doc: https://mylibidodoc.com/ Libido Quiz: https://libidoquiz.com/ Want to Want It: https://wanttowantit.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ CONNECT WITH RYAN ALFORD AND VIBE SCIENCE Vibe Science: https://vibescience.com/ Ryan Alford: https://ryanalford.com/ Ryan on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryanalford/