One decision can change the entire course of your life.
Should you have children... or not?
For many women, this isn't a simple choice. Divorce, heartbreak, infertility, timing, career, or simply not knowing what you truly want can leave you questioning the future you always imagined.
In this heartfelt conversation, Andrea sits down with clarity coach and Kids or Child Free podcast host Keltie Maguire to discuss one of life's biggest decisions.
Together they explore:
• How to know if motherhood is truly right for you
• The pressure society places on women to have children
• Grieving the life you thought you'd have
• Dating after divorce when children are still part of the conversation
• Loving someone who doesn't want kids
• Child free by choice vs. childless not by choice
• Fear of regret and fear of missing out
• How to find peace no matter which path life takes
Whether you're still deciding, your circumstances made the decision for you, or you're learning to embrace a different future than you expected, this conversation offers compassion, hope, and permission to create a beautiful life on your own terms.
⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Why deciding whether to have children changes everything
02:25 Keltie's journey from fence sitter to confidently child free
10:25 Breaking free from society's expectations of women
15:15 The biggest fears women have about having or not having children
19:30 Grieving the life you thought you would have
22:20 Can anyone help you make this decision?
25:20 Dating after divorce when kids are still part of the equation
30:50 Falling in love with someone who already has children
35:25 Adoption, alternative paths, and what people are really searching for
37:20 Loving someone who doesn't want children
40:05 When should you discuss kids while dating?
41:55 A message for women whose path didn't go as planned
46:30 What if your partner changes everything?
52:00 How to create a meaningful life, with or without children
57:35 Final thoughts and encouragement
💡 I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU: What do you do when life doesn't turn out the way you planned?
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