Ever hung up the phone with your mother-in-law and felt a strange, unnamed sadness you couldn't quite explain? Or caught yourself building a whole case against your spouse's parents before you'd said a word out loud? This episode is for you.
This week Katie tackles two things that are more connected than most couples realize: the quiet grief we carry when our in-laws don't meet expectations we never actually spoke out loud, and the boundary almost no one learns to set around how we talk to our partner about their family.
You'll learn why what feels like anger toward your in-laws is often actually grief for something you hoped for but were never promised, how venting without a boundary can accidentally cast your partner as a villain in their own family story, and why it's your job (not your partner's) to address hurt caused by your own parents.
Katie also walks through three practical tools you can use this week: a simple way to tell the difference between hurt and grief, a shared phrase for venting versus problem solving, and a script for the one clear sentence that makes hard family conversations easier.
If your in-law relationships have been quietly wearing on your marriage, this one will give you language for it, and a way forward.
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