Betrayal shakes us to our core. It doesn't just damage trust in a relationship ... it can leave us questioning who we are, what we believe, and whether we'll ever feel like ourselves again.
In this special episode of the Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast, Kris Rocha shares a conversation from the Choose Connection Summit, hosted by Dr. Jake Porter. Interviewed by Kathy Reynolds, Kris explores one of the most meaningful aspects of betrayal recovery: rediscovering our God-given identity.
When betrayal becomes part of our story, it's easy to allow the pain, confusion, and trauma to define us. But betrayal is something that happened to you. It is not who you are.
Drawing from her personal healing journey and her work as a betrayal recovery coach, Kris shares how understanding our unique personalities, strengths, gifts, and values can help us rebuild confidence, reclaim our sense of self, and begin living intentionally again.
In this episode, we explore:
- Why betrayal can leave us feeling disconnected from our identity.
- The difference between what has happened to us and who we truly are.
- How understanding our God-given design can support healing and personal growth.
- The importance of identifying our personality, strengths, gifts, and core values.
- Why rediscovering ourselves is about more than simply returning to who we were before betrayal.
- How we can move beyond survival and begin living with greater purpose, confidence, and intention.
Healing isn't about erasing our story. It's about learning that our pain doesn't get to author who we become.
You are more than what happened to you. You are uniquely designed, deeply valuable, and worthy of a life filled with meaning and purpose.
Connect with Kris & Watermark Coaching
Watermark Coaching: Individual betrayal recovery coaching and identity-focused personal development. https://www.watermarkcoach.com
Afternoon Tea with Kris: Looking for connection with other women who understand the complexities of betrayal recovery? Join Kris for Afternoon Tea, a supportive weekly gathering where women can find encouragement, meaningful conversation, and community.
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About the Choose Connection Summit
Special thanks to Dr. Jake Porter and Kathy Reynolds for the opportunity to share this important conversation as part of the Choose Connection Summit.
Production Credits
Edited and produced by Cory Gonzalez.
