If dating makes you feel nervous, insecure or you feel the pressure to get things “right” this episode is for you.


So often single women over 30 are told to build your confidence dating, simply by dating more.


But you’ve been dating for 3+ years, you’ve probably also realized that isn’t actually true!


In this episode, I share how you actually build dating confidence and why simply forcing yourself to date more isn’t the answer.


Because if on every date…


🫣 The stakes feel HIGH

🫢 You’re terrified or doing or saying the wrong thing

💔 Being rejected

🤦‍♀️ Messing up this chance at love


Then it’s almost impossible to relax, actually enjoy yourself and genuinely connect with the man you’re with.


And love can’t happen.


In this episode you’ll discover the 4 STEPS that build solid dating confidence.


These are the steps I took that helped me go from cancelling on dates last minute because I was too scared to go, to genuinely loving dating!!


And it was this confidence I gained that meant within ONLY 4 WEEKS I’d met my husband 💫❤️😲


In this episode you'll learn:


  • Why dating feels so scary (even if you're confident everywhere else in life).
  • The real reason dating more doesn't automatically make you more confident.
  • The beliefs that quietly destroy your confidence before you even go on a date.
  • How to stop making every date feel like such high stakes.
  • Why the right man doesn't need a perfect version of you.
  • The perspective shift that calms pre-date nerves so you can date with confidence.


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