This week, Elle and Vee sit down with relationship coach and Polycurious host Fernanda Fabian to unpack one of the most misunderstood relationship dynamics: mono-poly relationships. Fernanda shares how she and her monogamous fiancé built a thriving partnership by moving painfully slow, prioritizing trust, and creating predictable check-ins that made difficult conversations feel safe. Together they explore jealousy, reassurance, boundaries, and why most couples sabotage openness by rushing past their nervous system's capacity. If you've ever wondered whether love can survive radically different relationship needs, this conversation will challenge everything you think you know.
CHAPTERS
00:00 - Wait... A Mono-Poly Relationship Actually Works?
11:32 - Building the Foundation Before the Poly Freedom
13:00 - The Biggest Mistake Couples Make When Opening Up and How to Avoid it.
20:19 - Check-Ins, Boundaries, and Hard Conversations to Build Trust
28:29 - Patience. Why waiting often gets you what you want faster than pushing
36:00 - Predictability Creates Safety
41:00 - What's In It for the Monogamous Partner? The Overlooked Truth
48:37 - Jealousy Isn't the Enemy
54:45 - Dating Monogamous People When You're Poly
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Guest: Fernanda Fabian
Website: Polycurious
Instagram: @polycuriouspodcast
Podcast: Polycurious Podcast
Email: polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com
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