Why do so many people with ADHD spend their lives trying to earn their worth? How do you know if you're masking? And why do even the most successful ADHD adults still feel like they're failing?
In this episode, ADHD coach and former British Army soldier Rich Forbes explains the hidden emotional burden of ADHD, how to spot masking, practical strategies for managing rejection sensitivity, and why the right environment can change everything. Before becoming an ADHD coach, Rich served for eight years in the British Army, bringing a unique perspective on resilience, identity, and what it really takes to thrive with ADHD.
Chapters:
00:00 Trailer
03:33 Why ADHD Makes You Feel You Have to Earn Your Worth
05:00 The Hidden Cost of Constantly Proving Yourself
07:53 The Moment Everything Finally Made Sense
09:10 The Saddest Thing People With ADHD Tell Themselves
10:16 The Grief Nobody Warns You About After ADHD Diagnosis
11:01 Why ADHD Diagnosis Hurts Differently at Every Age
17:00 How to Tell If You've Been Masking Your Entire Life
18:54 Maybe You're Not the Problem, Maybe It's Your Environment
21:04 Is Masking ADHD's Biggest Challenge?
25:06 What Years of Masking Really Costs You
28:22 The Emotional Weight ADHD Adults Carry Every Day
31:37 Tiimo Advert
32:56 How to Calm Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria
34:52 A New ADHD Hack That Changes Everything
38:52 Why Success Never Feels Like Enough With ADHD
40:16 The Advice Every ADHD Adult Needs to Hear
42:33 The One Thing ADHD Adults Need to Stop Blaming Themselves For
48:03 Why Successful Women With ADHD Still Feel Like Failures
54:46 The Biggest Myth About ADHD in Women
58:18 A Letter to My Younger Self
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Producer: Timon Woodward
Recorded by: Hamlin Studios
Trailer editor: Ryan Faber
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