Talking about sex can feel awkward, but avoiding the conversation can keep couples from experiencing deeper intimacy, understanding, pleasure, and joy. In this episode, Derek, Andrew, and Gabrielle discuss how to communicate about sex both inside and outside the bedroom, how to talk about expectations and frustrations with humility, how past experiences can affect intimacy, and how couples can create a safe environment where sex communication can be had openly.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
What is one thing you love about our sexual relationship?
What is one thing that would help you feel more loved, desired, or connected?
What is one thing I could do differently to serve you better?
Are there things we have never talked about because we feel embarrassed, awkward, or afraid of how the other person will respond?
Are there any expectations we have about frequency, initiation, affection, or intimacy that we haven't clearly communicated?
What helps you feel emotionally connected to me outside of the bedroom?
Is there anything about our sexual relationship that causes frustration, pain, or disconnection that we need to talk about?
How can we make our sexual conversations more characterized by humility, patience, humor, and grace?
