#184 You feel stuck because you're solving the wrong problem

Have you ever felt like you’re genuinely trying to change something in your life… but somehow keep ending up in the same place?

You read the books. Take the classes. Download the app. Change the routine. Ask for advice. Try harder. And still, something feels off.

In this episode, I want to explore a possibility we don’t talk about enough: What if you’re not failing at the solution? What if you’re solving the wrong problem?

We’ll talk about why we rush to make discomfort disappear, why relief and resolution aren’t always the same thing, and how curiosity can help you figure out what you actually need.

I’m also sharing how a frustration in my own bachata dancing made me realise that “more” wasn’t necessarily the answer - and how that same pattern shows up everywhere from careers and productivity to relationships, hobbies and personal growth.

Because sometimes you don’t need another answer.You need a better question.