81. The Girls Get Off Episode (and Honestly, So Should You): Vibrators, Shame & the Orgasm Gap

If you’ve ever felt shame around pleasure, been nervous about trying sex toys, or wondered how the hell to ask for what you actually like in bed — this episode is your new safe space.

Kathleen is joined by Viv from Girls Get Off — the powerhouse brand behind some very buzzy bedside drawer staples — for a no-filter conversation on all things pleasure, desire, and ditching the shame.

They get into:
→ The real reason so many women still struggle with receiving pleasure
→ The orgasm gap (and how to actually close it)
→ Sex toy 101: a breakdown of the types + how to explore them without the overwhelm
→ How to talk about sex without spiralling into “Do they think I’m weird now?”
→ And why connecting to your pleasure isn’t just sexy… it’s healing.

This one’s equal parts spicy, empowering and giggle-worthy. And yes — it’s VERY R18. Plug in your headphones, babe.

Resources mentioned:
→ Girls Get Off Website
→ Girls Get Off Instagram
→ GGO Facebook Community Group
→ Yoni Mapping Practitioners
→ Anal Dilation 101 (yes, we went there)
→ Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz
→ Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

✨ Want to keep healing and reconnecting with your body, mind and self-worth?
Join Kathleen’s 1:1 program HEAL — designed to help you unpack the beliefs, patterns, and parts that have kept you stuck in self-abandonment, anxiety, and shame.
More on HEAL here → https://www.kathleenmindsetcoach.com/coaching