There's a version of dating advice that tells you exactly what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. And there's a reason none of it works.
Because what he's responding to has almost nothing to do with your words. Before you've finished your first sentence he's already picked up something about you that no script can manufacture and no strategy can fake. And that something determines everything — whether he leans in or pulls back, whether he takes you seriously or keeps things casual, whether he sees a future or just a moment.
This episode is about what he's actually reading. And more importantly — what you can do about it.
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