Most women were never taught about their pleasure. Most men were never taught about women's pleasure. So we've all just been winging it, and nobody talks about the damage that does.
Women are leaving relationships. Women are cheating in relationships. Women are lying in bed saying the sex was great when really it wasn't, because they were never taught they were allowed to ask for more. And men are assuming everything is fine because she never said otherwise.
If you have ever pretended it was fine when it wasn't. If you have ever let him roll over and go to sleep without saying a word. If you have ever wondered why you keep ending up here, this episode will name the thing you've never been able to.
Your pleasure is not a bonus. It is not a nice-to-have. It is a non-negotiable. And if you've never said that out loud, this is the episode where you start.
What we cover:
Why nobody taught us about women's pleasure — and what that silence has cost us
The difference between a man who gives because he wants to and one who gives out of obligation
Why women cheat — and what men still refuse to acknowledge about it
If your partner brings you a need and you won't meet it, expect it to be outsourced
How to communicate your non-negotiables in bed without shutting down or blowing up
TIMESTAMPS
00:00: The conversation no one is having honestly about sex
01:35: Most women were never taught their pleasure matters — and most men weren't either
27:20: The four types of men in bed — and the one that belongs in the bin
58:27: Underneath most cheaters is an unmet need, and nobody wants to say it
1:06:14: Your pleasure is a non-negotiable. Here's how to communicate it.
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