Can you prevent postpartum depression? There is no checklist that can guarantee a new mom will or won’t experience postpartum depression, but there are evidence-based preventive interventions and protective factors couples can begin putting in place during pregnancy.
In this episode, Chelsea talks about postpartum mental health through the lens of preparation, partnership, and support. Prompted by the current conversations surrounding the Lindsay Clancy trial and Hayden Panettiere’s public history with postpartum depression, she explores what expecting parents can do before the baby arrives to create a stronger safety net around the postpartum mother.
Important: Chelsea is not a mental health clinician, and this episode is not medical advice or postpartum depression treatment. Postpartum depression and postpartum psychosis are also distinct conditions, and postpartum psychosis can require emergency psychiatric care.
In this episode, we talk about:
Understanding your individual risk factors for postpartum depression during pregnancy
Why you may want to establish with a perinatal mental health therapist before birth
Building a maternal mental health support team before you need it
Why your partner should be part of your safety net—but not your entire safety net
Protecting postpartum sleep and creating opportunities for meaningful rest
Preventing one parent from automatically becoming the default parent
Sharing the mental load instead of waiting for mom to delegate
Questions partners can ask beyond simply, “How are you?”
Creating a postpartum mental health escalation plan during pregnancy
What partners can actually own without trying to diagnose or “fix” postpartum depression
Why functioning does not necessarily mean a new mother is doing well
How expecting couples can build stronger relational protective structures before their baby arrives
One of the biggest takeaways:
Your partner does not need to own your mental health.
They can own more of the environment around you.
That can mean protecting opportunities for sleep, bringing food and water without being asked, taking ownership of household responsibilities, managing visitors, learning warning signs, knowing who to contact, noticing meaningful changes, and believing you when you say something does not feel right.
Find perinatal mental health support through Postpartum Support International:
PSI Perinatal Mental Health Provider Directory | PSI Perinatal Mental Health Directory
Download Chelsea’s Postpartum Plan:
Postpartum Planning Checklist for Couples | Postpartum Together
Learn more about Prep for Us:
Prep for Us: How to Prepare Your Relationship for a Baby | Postpartum Together
Prep for Us is Chelsea’s six-week preparation program for expecting couples. It is not postpartum depression treatment. Instead, couples work on the relational structures that can support a healthier postpartum environment—including understanding stress responses, sharing the mental load, protecting recovery, identifying support, communicating needs earlier, and learning how to recognize when something is no longer working.
Because we cannot guarantee that a mother will never experience postpartum depression.
But we can stop making “hopefully she tells us if she’s drowning” the postpartum mental health plan.
