We see it again and again: a family keeps vigil for days, someone finally steps out for coffee, and that's the exact moment their loved one dies. Why does it happen?

In this episode, I dig into one of the strangest, most consistent patterns in end-of-life care: patients who seem to wait until the room is empty (or, just as often, wait until everyone arrives) before they let go. I look at the leading theories and what this pattern might say about autonomy, love, and how little we really understand about dying.

A note: This episode explores death and dying in a reflective, non-graphic way. If end-of-life topics are difficult for you right now, feel free to skip this one and come back to the feed next week.

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Music: "Cheery Monday" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
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