Are you eating well, exercising consistently, and still gaining weight or feeling worse in your body?
For years, I believed the answer was to tighten up my nutrition, burn more calories, and become more disciplined. I was a personal trainer and nutrition coach, working out six days a week, eating around 1,400 calories, and still watching my body change.
In this episode, I share the personal experiences tat contributed to what I now call “health debt,” including a life-threatening postpartum hemorrhage, years of low energy, sleepless nights supporting my daughter through anxiety, repeated illness, grief, divorce, solo parenting, and the pressure to keep showing up as though I was fine.
I also explain why perimenopause may expose the strain your body has been carrying for years, why eating less and exercising more can stop producing results, and what changed when I finally began eating more, exercising less, prioritizing protein, and allowing my body to recover.
Weight gain may be the symptom that gets your attention, but it may not be the first problem your body needs you to address.
In This Episode
00:00 Why health-conscious women can do everything right and still gain weight
01:20 Working out six days a week, eating 1,400 calories, and getting worse results
02:20 How I entered the fitness and nutrition industry
03:08 What I now understand about the “eat less, move more” approach
04:32 Childbirth, low iron, motherhood, sleeplessness, and the experiences that accumulated in my body
07:20 What I mean by health debt and why perimenopause can expose it
08:51 The symptoms I began experiencing at 37
11:20 Waking at 4 a.m., doubling my pre-workout, and cutting more calories
12:52 Why pushing harder made my exhaustion and weight gain worse
15:52 Why normal lab results did not mean my symptoms were imaginary
17:25 What happened when I began eating more and exercising less
18:30 Navigating grief, divorce, solo parenting, and another period of overwhelming stress
20:30 Becoming a Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner
21:32 What functional testing helped me understand about my digestion, gut health, hormones, and recovery
25:36 Why weight loss was not the first problem my body needed to solve
27:12 How intense workouts can add more pressure when your body is already struggling
29:59 The first step toward working with your body instead of fighting it
Connect with Bria
Instagram: @theperiodwhisperer
Website: https://theperiodwhisperer.com
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