On today's show, I'm talking about the difference between wanting to understand someone's past and wanting that past to have belonged to you. We explore why our minds can become attached to experiences we never lived, how curiosity can quietly turn into ownership, and why real intimacy isn't about rewriting someone's history. It's about accepting that the life which shaped the person you love was never yours to possess.

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