Who Are You When You’re No Longer Who You Were — But Haven’t Become Who You’re Going To Be?
There is a version of you that exists after your marriage ends that we don't talk about enough.
The in-between version of you.
You're no longer who you were inside your marriage, but you haven't fully become who you're going to be yet.
In this episode, I'm exploring the identity shift that can happen after divorce — and why rebuilding your life isn't necessarily about getting back to who you were before.
Sometimes you're being asked to become someone you've never been before.
In this episode, we explore:
Why the old version of you can feel so tempting after divorce — even when you know you've outgrown them
The difference between changing your circumstances and actually changing yourself
Why feeling lost can sometimes mean you're simply between versions of yourself
Outgrowing old relationship patterns, friendships, environments and identities
What happens when your career, financial goals and ambitions begin changing too
Why transformation after divorce can extend far beyond healing from your ex
How the choices you're making now are creating evidence for the person you're becoming
Why you can honour who you've been without continuing to live as them
The question worth asking when your old life has ended: Who am I becoming because my old life no longer exists?
Divorce changes your circumstances. Transformation changes you.
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