Erika Behl is a coach based in Singapore. Originally from the US, she lived in Africa and Europe before eventually settling in Asia for the past 18 years. After spending almost two decades building a traditionally “successful” life, a breast cancer diagnosis in late 2017 catalysed a shift in her priorities. A year’s-long sabbatical, several attempts at starting a business, and a divorce later, she concedes that sometimes burning down what you don’t want is easier than finding what you do.
She writes for other deep-thinking independents, tells stories on stage, hosts the "Every Moment is a Choice" podcast, and will publish The Clear-Eyed Chemo Journal, a system for cancer patients to reclaim their agency, in 2026. Her work centres on approaches to writing one’s own path.
Join us as Erika shares:
Her extraordinary and unusual journey as a young woman
The shock of her cancer diagnosis at 40 years old with a young family
Her coping strategies as an introvert and atheist
The usefulness and also peril of ‘the cancer warrior’ persona
Her subsequent full-blown breakdown after surviving cancer
The devastating impact of not speaking her truth and the building pressure of wearing masks
The power of choice and taking action
How shopping around through therapy, meditation, somatic practices, connection and discovery paved the road to her recovery
The rise of creativity through personal storytelling, writing, and podcasting
How her journey led to helping others through coaching and her soon-to-be-released Cancer Journal: The Clear-Eyed Chemo Journal
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