In this episode of Dear Doula, I switch things up and dive into what it means to prepare our older kids for college. As a mom of three with a 19-year-old in college and two younger kids, I know firsthand that the journey through higher education can be overwhelming, especially with mounting costs and endless choices. That's why I invited Lizette Paredes, a college admissions expert, to guide us through finding the best "fit" for our teens, far beyond just chasing name-brand schools.
Together, we explore the myths around merit scholarships, the importance of having early and honest financial conversations, and why understanding your child's unique strengths and interests leads to the best educational outcomes. We dig deep into the advantages of public universities, the benefits of community college, and why every student's journey deserves to be individualized, focusing on their happiness and future success, not just prestige.
If you're a parent with college somewhere on the horizon, this one's for you! Listen in for practical tips, surprising options, and empowering advice to help both you and your teen navigate this exciting chapter.
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Connect with Lizette Paredes
Website: https://empoweredaccess.com/
key topics
- The importance of fit in college selection
- Early planning and self-discovery for students
- Understanding financial aid and scholarship opportunities
- The changing landscape of student loans and debt
- The value of community colleges and transfer pathways
- How to build a balanced college list
- The role of intrinsic motivation in college success
- Career exploration and self-assessment for students
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to College Prep and Guest Lizette Paredes
02:21 The importance of supporting development beyond high school
04:38 Factors to consider when choosing colleges: fit, cost, size
05:35 The significance of financial fit and early conversations
07:24 Understanding the changing student loan landscape
10:47 Myth busting about merit scholarships at top universities
12:25 The value of exploring lesser-known colleges and transfer options
15:30 Career and interest assessments for students
18:29 Helping students discover their passions and fit
21:17 The importance of maximizing opportunities in high school
22:50 Strategies for middle-class families to afford college
25:07 The role of community colleges and transfer pathways
30:37 Building a balanced college list and managing expectations
34:18 The value of college experiences and adulting lessons
38:23 Common struggles students face in college applications
39:51 The importance of early self-discovery and exploration
45:13 Examples of diverse career paths and hidden opportunities
50:47 The benefits of early career counseling and exploration
57:16 Advice for parents: supporting growth without high stakes
58:45 Guidance for students: exploring interests and authenticity
