“I’ll wait until I feel confident… then I’ll apply to speak.”
It sounds responsible. It sounds self-aware. And it’s one of the most common public speaking myths out there.
In this episode of the Public Speaking Myths Series, we’re unpacking the belief that confidence has to come before action—and how that mindset quietly keeps people stuck on the sidelines.
We’ll explore:
The myth that says you need to feel confident before applying to speak
When it does make sense to take action before you’re ready—and when it doesn’t
How to tell the difference between healthy nerves and a nervous system that truly isn’t ready
What to do instead when pushing yourself would cause more harm than growth
How to actively build confidence before and after doing the big, scary thing
If you’ve been waiting for confidence to magically arrive before you raise your hand, this episode offers a more grounded, compassionate approach—one that honors both growth and capacity.
🎙️ Press play if you’re ready to stop waiting for confidence and start building it in a way that feels supportive, intentional, and sustainable.
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