Host Dr. Rupa Wong sits down with board-certified pediatrician Dr. Ari Brown, bestselling author of Expecting 411, Baby 411, and Toddler 411, to cut through the noise of modern parenting. They discuss why effective parenting is not about choosing the perfect parenting style, but about holding clear boundaries, validating emotions, and allowing children to experience natural consequences. From what to do during a toddler tantrum to raising digital natives, protecting unstructured play, and avoiding overscheduling, Dr. Brown offers practical guidance for raising resilient kids without the pressure to parent perfectly.
IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 Why Parenting Advice Feels More Overwhelming Than Ever
04:19 Are Parents Overcomplicating Parenting?
06:25 Do Parenting Labels Actually Help?
07:00 How Boundaries and Natural Consequences Build Resilience
09:36 Does Gentle Parenting Mean No Boundaries?11:36 Why Physical Punishment Is Not the Answer
13:03 Why Do Toddlers Have Tantrums?
15:26 What Should You Do During a Toddler Tantrum?
16:11 Why You Shouldn’t Reason During a Meltdown
17:15 Does Redirection Work for Toddler Tantrums?
18:35 The Biggest Mistakes Parents Make During Tantrums
20:13 How Parents Accidentally Create a Feedback Loop
21:00 Why Caregivers Need to Stay Consistent
22:07 Screen-Time Tantrums and Digital Boundaries
22:59 How to Set Screen-Time Rules That Hold
25:48 What Are Screens Replacing in Childhood?
28:18 Why Boredom Is Good for Kids
29:10 Can Fast-Paced Content Affect Attention?
30:38 Are Kids Overstimulated and Overscheduled?
31:45 Letting Your Child Become Who They Really Are
34:34 Why “Good Enough” Parenting Is Enough
36:22 Where to Find Dr. Ari Brown
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ABOUT DR. RUPA WONG:
Rupa Wong, MD is an Ivy League trained board certified pediatric ophthalmologist and adult strabismus surgeon, wife, mom to 3 kids, entrepreneur, and the managing partner of Honolulu Eye Clinic for the past 15 years. She is passionate about helping the modern working mom focus on what matters most as she balances her ambition, her career, her family, and herself.
Disclaimer: Rupa Wong, MD, is a doctor, but she is not your doctor. This content is for general education and is not a substitute for individualized medical care.
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