Are today's parents protecting their children—or unintentionally holding them back?
In this episode of the Where Parents Talk Podcast, host Lianne Castelino speaks with Lenore Skenazy, founder of the Free-Range Kids movement, co-founder of Let Grow, journalist and author, about why childhood independence has become one of the most important parenting conversations of our time.
Nearly two decades after being labeled "America's Worst Mom" for allowing her nine-year-old son to ride the New York City subway alone, Skenazy explains how parenting culture has shifted—and why fear, anxiety and overprotection continue to prevent many children from developing confidence, resilience and real-world life skills.
Learn why manageable risk is essential for healthy child development, how parents can distinguish between genuine danger and exaggerated fear, and why giving children more age-appropriate freedom may actually reduce anxiety for both kids and parents.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- Why childhood independence is critical for building resilience and confidence
- How over-parenting and constant supervision can limit healthy development
- The surprising research on children's safety and parents' perceptions of risk
- Why free play and unstructured time matter more than ever
- How the Let Grow movement is helping families raise capable, confident children
- The connection between independence, anxiety and emotional well-being
- Practical ways parents can gradually give children more age-appropriate freedom
- Why kids often want real-world independence more than additional screen time
Whether you're raising elementary-aged children, tweens or teens, this conversation offers evidence-based insights that challenge conventional parenting wisdom while helping families prepare children for adulthood with confidence.
Companies mentioned in this episode:
- Let Grow
- Free Range Kids
- New York Daily News
- University of Michigan
- Daniel Schuchman
- Peter Gray
- Jonathan Haidt
This podcast is for parents, guardians, teachers and caregivers to learn proven strategies and trusted tips on raising kids, teens and young adults based on science, evidenced and lived experience.
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