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In today's excerpt with Jackie Glaser, we cover spiritual bypassing, noticing the patterns that keep showing up in our lives, cultivating self-worth and self-trust, navigating rejection, our flaws as filters while dating, recognizing that matchmakers do not have control over people's future when navigating the shidduch system, and strengthening our trust in God.
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To contact Jackie or learn more about her courses, you can find her at jackieglaser.com or find Jackie on Instagram: datingbyjackieg
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TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 Spiritual bypassing
2:04 How our patterns are signposts from Hashem, not punishments
3:07 Why we avoid taking responsibility, and turn anxiety into blaming Hashem instead
5:27 Going inward with compassionate curiosity instead of judgment
7:11 Turning to G-d as an escape hatch
7:21 Normalizing the pattern before moving forward
9:08 Self-trust as the real foundation behind who you marry
9:17 The somatic work begins: tuning into the body as a source of real data
12:45 Surrendering
14:23 Clearing subconscious blockage to make more room for closeness with Hashem
16:13 How our internal beliefs get projected onto strangers
17:35 Why healing the felt state dissolves the belief system underneath it
18:58 How the fear of rejection actually dissolves with this work
20:42 "I reject myself" — the most important relationship you'll ever build is with you
22:23 Disability or flaws as a filter in dating, not a disqualifier
24:05 Boundaries with matchmakers
25:44 When parents choose to "play the game" with a difficult shadchan for their child's sake
26:27 Hashem was never limited to a shadchan
