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🎙️ How do you practice non-attachment when something really matters to you?
You’ve tried letting go. But you’re still replaying the conversation, questioning someone’s behavior, or thinking about how things should have happened.
In this episode of The Kathie Owen Perspective, I share what practicing non-attachment looks like in my own life—from relationships with my sons to workplace stress and family expectations.
To me, non-attachment means letting go of how you think things should be. That conscious choice creates space to see more information, different perspectives, and possibilities you may have missed.
✨ In this episode, we explore:
• How to recognize the expectations that keep you hooked
• Why the pause matters when pressure takes your peace, power, and presence
• How to stop carrying workplace conversations into your personal life
• My personal connection between “turning the other cheek” and non-attachment
• Dropping importance and observing pendulums through Reality Transurfing
• Using hobbies, meditation, and nature walks to redirect your attention
• How letting go helped me discover what I actually wanted
🧳 You may still care deeply. You may still need to speak up or make a decision. You can also practice putting down the mental argument and returning your attention to your own choices.
📖 EXPLORE THE RESOURCES
The Truth Bubbles Up — My book shares the experiences behind these insights, including my journey with my sons and workplace patterns.
www.kathieowen.com/truthbubblesup
Read the companion blog post — Explore this episode’s ideas and additional resources.
www.kathieowen.com/blog/kathie-nonattachment
Explore Reality Transurfing — Learn more about importance, pendulums, and the practices I discuss.
www.kathieowen.com/reality-transurfing
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No shame, no condemnation. Just a pause, a choice, and some space.
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Pressure doesn't define us. It reveals the patterns we've yet to observe.
