🥅 What separates a talented goalie from one who consistently performs under pressure? According to renowned mental performance coach Pete Fry, the answer often begins with the picture that goaltender holds in their mind.

Pete Fry—known throughout hockey as “The Goalie Mindset Guy”—joins Lee Elias and Christie Casciano Burns for a powerful conversation about confidence, visualization, resilience, preparation, and the mental demands of playing one of the most challenging positions in sports.

A former WHL All-Star, NHL draft pick, and professional goaltender, Pete has worked with athletes across the NHL, AHL, CHL, NCAA, international hockey, and other professional sports. He shares lessons from his own playing career, including how limiting beliefs affected his opportunity after being drafted by the New Jersey Devils—and how that experience led him to dedicate his life to mastering the mental side of performance. 

In this episode, Pete explains why goalies do not simply react to what is happening around them. They often react to the images, sounds, expectations, and stories playing inside their own heads.

🏒 Inside the episode:

  •  How visualization and “mind mapping” can prepare goalies for pressure 
  •  Why positive thinking must always be followed by meaningful action 
  •  How to shrink negative mental images before a big game 
  •  A practical reset routine after allowing a goal 
  •  Why water, breathing, posture, and smiling can help reset the brain 
  •  How coaches accidentally plant negative thoughts in young goalies 
  •  Why parents should avoid becoming postgame statisticians 
  •  The difference between an athlete mindset and a fan mindset 
  •  Why goalies should learn to welcome breakaways, penalties, and difficult moments 
  •  How a goalie’s body language can influence the entire bench 
  •  Why parents should support their child’s right to dream big 

Pete also shares examples involving NHL and elite goaltenders, including Stuart Skinner, Jakub Dobeš, Mads Søgaard, Carter Hart, Carson Bjarnason, and Josh Ravensbergen. He explains how mental rehearsal, confident language, and purposeful body language can help a goaltender prepare for the next shot instead of replaying the last one.

The message for young goalies is simple but powerful:

Good goal, bad goal—who cares? The only thing that matters is the next shot and the next save.

đź“– Want a written version you can reference anytime? Check out our companion blog: How Young Goalies Can Build Confidence, Handle Pressure, and Reset After a Goal

🎧 Listen now and discover how goalies, parents, and coaches can build a stronger, calmer, and more resilient mindset—on the ice and in life.

Learn more about Pete Fry, his books, speaking, mindset coaching, and goalie-parent course at PeteFry.net.

Have a question for the show? Email team@ourkidsplayhockey.com or use the text link accompanying this episode.

Keep dreaming big, keep doing the work, and keep building the mindset that allows young athletes to thrive.

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